HomeFriends Relationship QuestionsWhat are the signs of a bad friendship?
Alay Staff asked 5 months ago
Lately, I have been feeling really down. I can't seem to put my finger on it, but something just doesn't feel right with my friends. I don't think they are bad people, but there are definitely some signs that our friendship is not as strong as it could be. Am I with toxic people?
1 Answers
Rila Thomas Staff answered 5 months ago
There are definitely some signs that your friendship is not as strong as it could be. Here are a few examples:
  • You feel like you have to walk on eggshells around them and tiptoe around their feelings
  • They are always quick to point out your flaws and criticize you
  • They make you feel bad about yourself
  • They are always trying to one-up you
  • They only ever talk about themselves
  • You always feel like you have to defend yourself around them
  • You feel like they are never truly happy about your successes
These are just a few examples, but if you are feeling like this in your friendship, it might be time to reassess things. Sometimes, it's just a matter of communicating with your friends and telling them how you feel. Other times, it might be time to move on from the friendship altogether. Trust your gut and do what feels right for you!