HomeLong Distance Relationship QuestionsI found out my partner has an affair during our long-distance relationship. What to do now?
Roy Murray asked 5 months ago
Ben and I have been in a long-distance relationship for two years now. We've been through a lot of ups and downs, but we've always managed to work through them. Recently, I found out that my partner has been having an affair with someone else. I'm not sure what to do or where to go from here
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Rila Thomas Staff answered 5 months ago
I am so sorry that you are going through this and feeling so lost. It sounds like you are feeling a lot of pain and betrayal right now. The first thing you need to do is give yourself some time to process what has happened. This might mean taking a few days to yourself or talking to a therapist. Once you have had some time to process, you can then decide if you want to try and work things out with your partner or if you want to end the relationship. If you decide to work things out, it will be important to talk about what happened, why it happened, and how you can prevent it from happening again in the future. Take care of yourself during this tough time.