HomeFriends Relationship QuestionsHow to tell my friend that she needs to get herself together?
Roy Murray asked 2 months ago

My friend is always messy and she doesn't take care of herself. I don't know how to tell her that she needs to get her act together without sounding judgmental or mean.

1 Answers
Rila Thomas Staff answered 1 month ago

I think you should talk to your friend in a loving and supportive way. Tell her that you are worried about her and that you want her to be healthy and happy. Suggest some specific things she can do to take care of herself, like eating better or exercising more. Offer to help her in any way you can. But ultimately, it's up to her to make the changes she needs to make. You can't force her to change, but you can be there for her as she makes the journey. Thanks for reaching out, this is a really tough situation to be in. I hope your friend makes the changes she needs to make and that you can continue to support her.