Jessie and I have been friends for years. We've never been serious, but we've always had a strong connection. Recently, we started dating and I think I'm really falling for her. But part of me wonders if this is just an infatuation phase. How can I tell the difference?
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There's no easy answer to this question. Ultimately, only time will tell if your feelings are real or just a passing infatuation. However, there are a few things you can look for that may help you determine if your feelings are genuine.
If you can't stop thinking about the person, even when you're not with them, it's probably more than just infatuation. If you find yourself constantly wondering what they're doing and if they're thinking about you too, it's a good sign that your feelings are real.
Another way to tell if your feelings are more than just infatuation is how much you're willing to invest in the relationship. If you're constantly making plans and trying to find ways to spend more time together, it's a good sign that your feelings are genuine.
If you're just infatuated with someone, you may only see them through rose-colored glasses. But if you're truly in love with someone, you'll be able to see them for who they really are, flaws and all.
Ultimately, only time will tell if your feelings for Jessie are real or just an infatuation. However, if you find yourself thinking about her constantly, making plans to spend more time together, and seeing her for who she really is, it's likely that your feelings are genuine.
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