HomeRomantic Relationship QuestionsHow to know if the person is really into you?
Roy Murray asked 5 months ago
I met this guy on a dating app and we decided to meet 3 weeks ago. It was cool and fun at first, but then he started acting distant. He would take hours to respond to my texts, and when we did meet up, he seemed really distracted. I don't want to waste my time on someone who isn't interested, but I also don't want to be too pushy. But he said that is just going through something and he is sticking around to talk sometimes? It is just mixed signals.
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Rila Thomas Staff answered 5 months ago
If you're wondering whether or not the person you're dating is really into you, there are some telltale signs you can look out for. One major sign is how responsive they are to your texts and calls. If they take hours to respond or seem distracted when you do see each other, it's possible they're not as invested in the relationship as you are. Another sign is how much effort they're putting into planning dates and getting to know you. If it feels like they're not really trying, it might be because they're not that interested. Of course, it's possible that the person is just going through a busy period or dealing with some personal issues. But if you've been dating for a while and they don't seem to be making any effort to improve communication or make things work, it might be time to move on.