I have a friend who is always judging people and she doesn't even realize it. She'll say things like "that person is so stupid" or "why would anyone wear that?" And it's really starting to bother me. I don't want to be around someone who is constantly judging others, but I also don't want to hurt her feelings.
It's important to be honest about how you're feeling. You might say something like, "I've noticed that you've been making a lot of judgments lately about people and their choices. It's really bothered me because I feel like you're judging me too. I don't want to be around someone who is constantly judging others, so I think it's best if we take a break from our friendship for a while."
Your friend might be hurt by your words, but it's important, to be honest about how you're feeling.
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