I am in a long-term relationship and later, my boyfriend has been asking to see my phone a lot. He says he just wants to see who I'm texting and what I'm up to, but it's really starting to annoy me. I have nothing to hide from him, but I don't like him going through my phone. How can I make him stop?
That sounds controlling and like he doesn't trust you. If you have nothing to hide, then tell him that and show him your phone. If he still doesn't believe you, then maybe there's something else going on that he's not telling you. In any case, sit down with him and talk about why he feels the need to check his phone all the time. If he can't give you a good reason, then tell him that it's not okay and he needs to stop. If he doesn't, then maybe it's time to rethink the relationship.
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